Wednesday, October 23, 2013
the 30 list!
1. List 20 random facts about yourself.
I'm 31 and keep thinking I am 32. haha
I had 3 kids in 22 months
I have a weakness for popcorn
Since being "older" there are not many veggies or fruits I will not eat.
I was(am/always will be) a band geek!
I play the flute(do not insert jokes here >-< )
I did go to band camp one time. (again do not insert jokes here)
I have studied at 3 different colleges and still have hardly any credits.
I was born in HOUSTON
Raised In Crockett.
I am a fan of everything HOUSTON! (rockets, astros, Texans, Dynamo & Aeros)
I am on my 2nd marriage.
The first was even declared divorce worthy by a catholic priest! (that says something right there!)
MY husband is my soul mate.
we went to the same high school, even to the same prom, and ever really "met" and we were in a small school.
I have PCOS.
I was told I would never ever have kids not even though fertility treatments. by SEVERAL drs.
I have had "5" surgeries and 1 broken bone in 31 years of life.
I have a love of the arts, Paintings, sculptures, music, plays, musicals, be it in person or on tv.
Im a perfectionist at heart, who is so ocd, and ADD that nothing is ever right that I do.
2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.
Acrophobia- Fear of heights, but really its heights plus bridges, that came from when i was a child and we got side swiped and all i remember is sitting in the back of the vehicle and being able to see the water....... not the side of the bridge not the road but water only. or so that's what my memory recalls plus, the added weight doesn't help me out at all with the fear. being heavier hurts more when you fall LOLOL.
Climacophobia- Fear of stairs, climbing, or of falling downstairs. I can walk em I can Climb em........ but..... i freak out in my head when thinking about falling well and if you add in an escalator it freaks me out thinking about getting stuck in them......
Kakorrhaphiophobia- Fear of failure or defeat. I fear all the time, that I am not good enough, not smart enough, not bright enough, Fear that what ever i touch or try to do I will fail at. I fear failing at being a good wife, at being a loving caring supportive proverbs 31 woman/wife. I fear at failing my kids at being the best mom they could have, I fear failing to be a good daughter. I fear failing to be a good Christian, A good friend. etc. Of course i have never been clinically proven to have these fears but when you really stop and think about what bothers you what you deep in your heart feel and fear you can get a list a mile long I am sure!
3. Describe your relationship with your parents.
I am very close with my mother. Shes my mom, my best friend, my kids grandmother, and a stand up amazing woman! My father God rest his soul, I miss more and more every day with every thing that the kids go though and do.
4. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year-old self, if you could.
God comes first always!
Do what brings your heart joy!
Never let others take you for granted!
Stand up for what is right!
Stand up for your self!
Believe in your self and God ALWAYS!
Keep the faith in your self and in GOD NO matter what!
people come and people go, but its God who is always there for you no matter what!
Wait for God to show you the door to love. He has a plan you just wont understand!
Even though Family always comes first to you, Not all people think that way!
Walk away from being hurt & don't look back!
(yes there are 11) haha
5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
and our new home!!!!!!!
6. What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced?
Leaving my twins, Gabe & Zeke, to go to the hospital for who knew how long....... days away........ while pregnant with Daniel........... but this almost ties with When Gabe and Zeke were born and shipped a state away.
7. What is your dream job, and why?
Well, My dream jobs, as a child were being a mother (and yes a SAHM was the dream) and having my MSN in nursing and being a nurse. ......... one down one to go. Nursing is a job that touches my heart, The VA nurses my dad had.......... and the NICU nurses my kids have....... its one of the most important jobs out there!
8. What are 5 passions you have?
life(any my husband and kids )
active life style!
9. List 10 people who have influenced you and describe how.
Peggy Lou Orbke: my Grandmother A strong stubborn, amazing, woman!
Patricia Lynne Moore: My Mother, A woman who Molded me by showing me how strong, smart, beautiful, gifted, graceful, loving, kind, compassionate, determined and a great mother!
C.D.P. for showing me what I do and do not want in a husband, he was a wonderful brother who was strong and amazing in so many ways and had such great qualities that I looked up to when I was younger.
Mel: for showing me that all things are possible and you can make it though anything if you rely on God and put your all into it!!!
Lee Roy Vargas, For showing me what a great man is made of! for showing me how to work hard and learn new things at any age!
Sandra Dillard, For being an amazing teacher, friend and inspirational woman!
Gabriel and Ezekiel: for being super heroes, over coming so many obstacles that were put in their path since birth!
Daniel: for coming out big and strong and showing us what he is made of from a early age!
Sonia, She was one that I looked up to since I was born, Smart Beautiful, and over all awesome. when i as young she is who i wanted to be like and boy could you tell from small things like my messy bed room haha.
10. Describe your most embarrassing moment.
Most embarrassing one i remember was at state play offs for Football my Jr year. we were having to do our routine on the side lines due to bad weather and us not being allowed on the field when we were in the middle of our routine, we switched flags ( i was on the flag line) so we all drop our polls pick up our others and a team mate threw her poll in the wrong place, i stepped on it slipped and busted my butt ................ in front of what felt like 1000's of people.............
11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.
picking at your teeth,
sucking things out of your teeth,
not using thanks please, yes maam no maam yes sir no sir. (so manners in genreal)
leaving the toilet seat up!!!!!
12. Describe a typical day in your current life.
get kids up
feed em again
feed em again
13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.
chocolate cake teeeheehee.
14. Describe 5 strengths you have.
the things i am the strongest at are loving those who love me
helping those that i can
relying on GOD
physically my legs haha
and im not too shabby at writing poetry
15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
Id want to be a penguin or a lobster (that reminds me of the show friends) cause Id want to know my husband was my mate for life no matter what.
16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
3 of my greatest accomplishemnts are my kids Gabe Zeke and Daniel.
one i would like to say was losing the 100+lbs before the twins and i like love to say that #5 is repeating that....... so we will leave #5 blank for now =)
17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
At believing in my self!!!!!!!
18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
Not accepting me, my kids or my husband, and us not being put before others who do not matter. I know that sounds foolish, but again you know i believe in FAMILY first!
19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
Any where my husband is, that is where I want to be!!!
20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.
1.) On palm Sunday Getting a palm leaf, making it into a cross and walking home with my father from church.
2.) The Christmas that my parents came home with a blaizer full of wrapped gifts picking out one gift, then taking the rest and delivering them to children who were in need in our county!
3.) every holiday season baking breads cookies and candies with my mom!!!
21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
I have a super power! I made twins! =) hehe other wise maybe i would like to be a human lie detector!!!!!
22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
5 years maybe graduating college, kids in school and being an active part of the PTA!
10 years, lots and lots and lots of games for sports the kids are in ;)
15 years, i hope to be thinking about a way to celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary together that would only be 2 years away from then.
23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
cooking, sewing, baking, playing the flute, cant think of another great one right now. haha cause they are all so different and relaxing for me!
24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
not too much differnet just all boys in the house now vs 1b 1g from when i was a kid, other wise values and morals are still instilled strong!
25. If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and what would you eat?
I would love a dinner with my grand parents and great grand parents, I would love to know more about who I am where I came from and where all that combined with me today would show where I am headed. and meals i would just want foods from the generations.
26. What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?
has most wrong? like one thing is worse than the other?
IMO, its a lot!
men are supposed to be the leaders in the house.
it was adam and eve not adam and steve...... no offense but the only want to know in the end other than we are supposed to live by the bible is when GOD calls us all home.
that abortion is ok and your not killing a baby your killing a lump of cells, its a baby! no matter what you want ot call it the moment the sperm meets the egg its a baby!
that money makes the world go round, what the world needs most is love and compassion. not money and worldly things!
27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
my lips cause they are pouty and full
28. What is your love language?
Keith knows, thats all that matters LOL
29. What do you think people misundertand most about you?
that even though I am a "fixer" and a "people pleaser" that I do have a breaking point where my give a darn is broken and I no longer care. That I can only turn the other cheek so many times before I am worn out.
30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered for.
being a GOD fearing woman,
having a huge heart,
for raising Good boys who are morally sound, smart, and God fearing men.
For being my mother's daughter my Grandmothers grand daughter and my fathers daughter!!!
For having great work ethic!
For knowing how to take care of the home manage it and for being a great home maker and mother
For being a proverbs 31 wife and woman!